C.M. Rachels

When I started my writing journey years ago, I was often told that it was a waste of time by other people. Unfortunately, I listened and put off my dream of becoming a published writer and mostly wrote for myself, which I now deeply regret. If it weren’t for my parents and my late sister, I would never have had the courage to stop listening to all these negative people and pursue my dream. Now I have a published novel of which I’m very proud.

Lately, in a lot of the writer groups and communities, I’ve been seeing the same thing. Some writers have taken it upon themselves to break others down or “correct them”. I’m an empath, and I can see (almost feel) the disheartenment of some writers because of this. It’s really sad. Why break people down when you can build them up? Isn’t putting yourself out there hard enough as it is?

Self-publishing is a difficult and lonely road. Joining these communities, I think, is most authors’ way of connecting. Yes, authors need to have thick skins, but there is no need for authors to be sarcastic or nasty toward other authors or to leave snotty fake reviews to sabotage someone. There is enough sun for everybody, don’t hijack it from others. Let your work speak for itself, and let others be.

For those writers who feel discouraged because of harsh words, bad reviews, or low book sales, don’t give up. Your dream is worth it. Success is a long road, and sometimes it takes a little longer than you have anticipated. Don’t let others’ words define you. You have what it takes, and you are good enough. Your writing has a purpose. Keep going.